There are all sorts of males, but there is a peculiar type, the most sought-after, one who is simultaneously hard to find and too good to lose. These are a few distinct qualities of an alpha, as of now.
However, if you are aiming high and want to be a man of value and substance, a personality that everyone craves, then read on my friend.
In this very article you will know how to come by that rare finesse of an alpha male.
Ever Honest
Honesty is the best policy,’ but does it work in real life scenarios. The answer is, yes. Honesty is like a seed that you sew at an early age and reap for the rest of your life.
This is why being truthful and unpretentiously genuine are two fundamental qualities that alpha males always practice. They are always frank when they need to speak the truth. They don’t lie for the fear of being accused or criticized.
Most men would back off from honesty when they see the trouble coming towards them, they start prevaricating or lying or flee from the scene.
On the contrary, an alpha stands his ground ready to face the consequences. He remains transparent in all situations whether it is a friendship or a professional setting. He does not lie to himself for it will simply mean dualism.
Dependable
In general, we see people making a lot of noise when everything is alright, but the minute a calamity strikes they flee the scene. This is where an alpha male comes into picture.
It can be a good neighbour who looks after your house when you are away; a colleague who stands in for you during the holidays.
Or your spouse who shares household work or act independently when you are unable to. He arrives, out of nowhere, to save you and set things right.
Looks The Part
An alpha cant project power and impression if he does not dress well. While sizing up, the audience put a lot of emphasis on how well-dressed you are.
As the CEO of a company, one should wear more formal attire than other men belonging to his class. His outfits should comprise all the important detailing that set him apart from his team members and junior staff.
Also when dressing down he must remember his status and consider wearing decent clothes which indicate his position.
However, dressing smart is not only about top-brass, whatever role an alpha assumes his aim should be to sport exceptional sartorial acumen to inspire awe.
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Not Moody
Fickle is unpredictable, and unpredictable is unreliable. And no one is going to stay in the company of such a man. Therefore, stability of mind is the indispensable condition for an ordinary man to become a characteristic alpha male. Look! mood swings are traits of a teenager, one who fixes on ‘A’ now and switches to ‘B’ the next moment.
In practical life this kind behaviour pattern can be extremely detrimental for oneself and associated people. Sudden change of mood signifies erratic personality hopping from one thing to the other without arriving on a decision.
Alpha males possess constant temperament that changes naturally and in a manner that people can understand. They are not volatile like exchange rates. Shooting up to the top in a second and sinking to the bottom the next instant.
Loves To Socialize
Everyone needs a break from the exhaustive routine of work. Monotony can kill the pleasure of life.
Alpha males too like to party and enjoy family gatherings. They also prefer to go out, meet other people. This is a way to neutralize stress and relieve it naturally. Socializing with friends and relatives boosts energy levels, flushing the negativity and toxic elements from our body.
Alpha makes sure he not only enjoys himself but also makes other happy. His presence should create a healthy and positive environment in every setting.
Not Dominant
Every place has a hierarchy level and people have their roles and responsibilities. Being superior to someone is one thing but showing overbearingness comes under overpowering others, and no one is going to accept such behaviour.
Alpha males are aware of this fact and know where to exercise dominance and where to be polite. They avoid using this weapon unless the situation calls for it.
To project authority they deploy wit, experience, and smart tactics. Their motive is not to intimidate people around them but to control them professionally.
Not Afraid To Be Alone
Being all by yourself is also a rare attribute of an alpha male. It does not symbolize aloofness. Most people think that when a person is alone, they are unsocial, unfriendly, or avoiding interaction with others.
They relate with apathy and lack of confidence and feel that a person should always be surrounded by people to be happy and confident.
But, what they don’t realize is that by retiring to seclusion for a short period of a strong man can efficiently assess a situation, work out a problem or refresh his mind.
An alpha is bold enough to handle unusual circumstances when no one is with them. In fact, when somebody is on their own, they can realize their individuality and true power anew.
Careful With Money
Splurging cash on women and squandering millions of dollars on extravagant lifestyle, these are not the defining qualities of an alpha male. Contrarily, he is thrifty when buying a shirt or a car. He aims for the basic needs first, then wants. However, once in a blue moon when he desires to celebrate, he does it prudently.
Alpha male knows the worth of hard-earned money, especially when it is done through valid means. He believes that ‘a penny saved is a penny earned.’
An Innovator
When opportunities are scarce and a feasible solution seems far-fetched to every person, an alpha male, aka the maverick, shows up with his innovative solution. It can be a business, when all methods practically fail, he recommends an ingenious plan. When his teammates are perplexed at a riddle, he can solve the puzzle in no time.
Innovative persons are also risk takers, for they not only hang on repeated hectic techniques, but adopt new approaches. If you don’t try new ideas chances are you would never know your own potential.
Not only at work but an alpha could figure out subtle issues between personal relationships and resolve them to reunite with his close-knit bonds.
Versatility
Being versatile is all about being all-round guy, one who is good at many things, whether it is knowledge of global news, how to make Dosa or closing a business deal.
An Alpha male must cover a wide range of expertise to keep himself under limelight. Else, he will become a passed era. Not only this, but he should also adapt to his surroundings, the people he regularly meets and the challenges he encounters every day.
Mostly people give up in professional settings when they are supposed to adjust accordingly. They find it difficult to get on with others, and their working style. In fact, dealing with any new situation or person requires passion, patience, and persistence.
An alpha can take stock of any new setting and set up a successful strategy to win over other people.
Note: If you are short of these prominent qualities, becoming an Alpha male will only be a distant dream.
