You have been married for long or about to be or think to find someone to, but do you have what it takes to be a perfect husband? Now some men might start thinking of money, car or a big house overlooking a beach. Well, if you have all of this, still you need to develop some special qualities in order to win her admiration.
Love is abstract; love precedes respect. If respect is missing; love is gone.
A Perfect Husband
Think of your smooth life sans her for a day and you will realize how significant your significant other is.
Some of the sought after qualities will be explained here.
Faithful
A man of integrity- one who is loyal; can be tested and trusted any time. It is the genuine identity of a man. Loyalty is a moral quality that does not come easy. It may be an inherited trait, though, but to develop and maintain it throughout your life is a great way to earn respect.
Spend Time With Her
Some men think it is money that will entice women into loving them and they often stay busy in business, work. If you are not spending enough time with her regularly it is certainly going to frustrate her. Plan a routine that permits you enough time with your wife else the charm of married life will vanish.
Have a light conversation at the breakfast. At evening having a long stroll on a calm road can be a mood reliever. Even cleaning house together is a good for harmony. Get intimate with her quite often, it shows that she is special to you.
No one is strong enough to live alone, be vulnerable, show her you need her.
Stay Happy
Leave for work and return home with a smile on face. A hanging face or rude look is not what makes you a nice husband. As a man you have to take the initiative for a happy life. A little grin can change her mood and women are best at being positive all day long with a hope to see you back, if you left smiling.
Don’t think that only you face problems over the day, homemaking is also filled with challenges. Pretend to be happy even if you are disturbed for certain reason. She would be expecting a smiling man.
A smiling man keeps several tiffs at bay and a man with stiff face does not know what he could do with a free smile.
Be Playful With Her
Exhibit your fun side. Be a man of variety. Monotony never inspires, change is a natural phenomenon. Be childlike at times with your wife and kids. It is infectious, especially women prefer a man who can stimulate their mood and switch according to any situation.
Listen To Her
You may be treating her as your old friend. Understand!! A woman does not always want a solution provider but a listener too. She owns full right to ask you for help but sometimes she wants you by her side, your arm draped over her shoulder and you being all ears. Hence next time she comes to you with an issue or a riddle, be attentive and patient and look like one of her own.
Don’t be Bossy but Friendly
Don’t behave like you are the rule setter, your wife equally owns the home. Be friendly with her as you want her to be. Be amiable when interacting with her so she feels connected and respected. Prefer her decisions over yours to display respect. Ask her what paint colour she likes, changes she wants to make around the house. Most men decide and execute without sharing the idea with their wives. A kiss-off can break her heart. This is injustice to her.
* Credit Her Monthly
You are a debtor!! Not because she cooks for you or does your laundry but for her time and sacrifice. No matter how small or large salary- take out a proportional decent amount regularly and credit to her account. She will feel more enamoured and dignified. Her love should be requited. Treat her as an independent person who could have been in a quality job earning more than you- if not your wife. Such a man will rise himself to the top of her priority list.
Pay For Her Bills On Time
Don’t make her remind you of paying for her bills. Conversely do it in advance. Take care of her regular expanses. Supply her with sufficient cash to run the house. She might feel embarrassed if she has to tell you to get her mobile recharged.
* Bring Surprises Small & Valuable
Don’t buy her a Ferrari or Armani perfume all you need is to arrange something mesmerizing for her.
Bring a bunch of flowers, a rose as an expression of love. Arrange a night out or a fine dinner in the outskirts. Text her a passionate message before bed time. Write her a love note and leave it by the bedside. Make her think about you in a romantic way.
Take a small break from office to eat lunch with her.
Organize your love night. Be lovey-dovey all day; uncover your plan to her for an intimate night. Arrange the bed. Scent the room. Introduce some soft beverages. Play a romantic theme. Carry her in your arms. Execute the ploy!!
While she is out for a small trip to the market do all the laundry and relieve her from the burden.
Make her a full and nutritious breakfast, sit by her and watch her eat. Prepare the dinner at random evenings and serve her with your delicacies. Make her lovesick!!
Repair her faulty shoes or renew her watch strap. Restore her handbag’s buckles or zips. Clean and rearrange her wardrobe.
Take her on an evening drive and intentionally drop by your in-laws’ house.
Give Her A Massage
To many men this might mean a crap or a challenge to their ego but it is as amorous as relieving for her. She is busy all day taking care of you and the household. Race is always on for her. Blow her mind with a head massage, a pedicure or a facial. Who is more passionate and understanding than this man!!
Gift Her Randomly
Bring a quality perfume for her when you notice her old one is running out soon. Order some dresses online to surprise her before her birthday or long before an important event.
Holidaying
This is good for your family. Organize a beautiful getaway for few days. We all need a break. A cool peaceful holiday is vital in renewing love bond between you two. Often men are busy toiling themselves at work and women wearing themselves out in the kitchen. You both need to realize how important it is to live life. Working is a medium to run family; but you also need time to enjoy life together.
Meet Her Parents & Invite them
Most men don’t think the other way round. Just like you love your parents your consort too loves hers. She has already made a bigger sacrifice by moving to your house but that does not end her relationship with her family-relatives. A good husband should always pay regular visits to his in-laws and invite them to stay at his house. This will complete the contract beautifully and your wife will be more satisfied.
* Help Her Grow
If a wife is independent and runs her business or has a job, a husband should always help her like a good partner. He should be available when his wife needs him. An independent wife is ultimately going to boost family’s social and financial status. Seldom men try to subdue their wives and work passively to help her. This in turn creates ripples in a smooth life.
Work Out Together
A good husband will encourage his wife to stay fit. Exercising together will help them understand their basic need of keeping healthy. Working out with each other also teaches you to collaborate in life and solve problems.
Help In The Kitchen
Be a nice guy. Don’t forget to assist her in kitchen. It does not matter how hard you work. Cooking and doing the dishes is still harder as the woman never gets a day off. Train yourself by laying the table cloth and arranging the dishes. Improve gradually to cook with her and do the dishes on and off. Make sure she has everything in order and not coping in the kitchen.
Take Control of Kids
Be a husband and a father too. Take the charge of kids, attend them, play with them, take them out, help them in homework, teach them moral principles and train them on routine work. All these things belong to a father more than a mother since a man is called the head of family. If you are shunning this obligation, it is a sorry state of a man.
