For most men out there, just draping clothes, putting on a luxury watch and branded shoes should make them a gentleman. Lo and behold! That’s not the case gents! Money cannot buy everything, as they say. Under the skin a man’s true qualities are always underrated against the showy display.
This article explains how having a tunnel vision can keep you from earning a title called “A real gentleman.” Especially when you expect this from women.
Know which exact qualities women wish their men to have !!
Aimful
Women like a man who has an aim in his life, no matter how big it is but what impresses them about this man is the quality of being purposeful. What does it signify to them? Well, a man with an objective in his life is serious and dedicated to his goal- is likely to succeed- has a stable composition – has a promising future and all that to a woman spells a great quality of a potential mate.
Being aimful also denotes a man who goes about his business in routine and therefore stays busy.
Not Easily Charmed By Looks
That does not mean that a man who has firm mind is a misogynist or that way. This man does not let himself be baited or lured into transient things. Surprisingly it works inadvertently in his favour by giving an idea of his integrity to a woman- in fact women prize a man of this kind.
Pilots his Life
Third on the list of qualities is the one man who is in charge of his life- one who does not let anyone steer his life save himself- a man with risk management skills. To her, such a man is surefooted and capable enough to save her from storms.
Quick Decision Maker
A wise man is like a magnet that catches attention of any sophisticated woman. He should be able to make quick judgment of the situation and take action. Someone who is indecisive in a critical time would come off as wet behind the ears.
Man of Few Words
Women disregard men who blather- those who beat about the bush. Women find a man attractive who talks briefly and tactfully- This man appears more honest and straightforward. Being precise is also interpreted by women as a refined man- one who has attained a level of prudence. Although when required a man should be able to elaborate things.
Independent
Who is independent? A man who does his routine work by himself. Someone dependent upon a woman to do his laundry or polish his shoes seems barbaric. Generally, one who bosses around others will face rejections and repulsions from most women. It also translates lack of respect towards women. Contrarily, a man sharing the daily chores with his woman will make a real boss. A woman would often listen to him and ask for his advice because he believes in equity.
Maverick
An unconventional man would often make a preference for most women out there. This guy thinks and allows his mind to calculate the situations and invents new ways to deal with them. One who does not give a damn to the society or conventions would come across as a freethinker.
Enterprising
Women respect and admire a man who accepts new challenges and dares to take on an undertaking. For women prefer their men to lead them in certain spheres of life, this man if the time demands would not sway from doing the right.
Aristocratic -High Social Image
Usually women are drawn to a man who has a high social status- one who owns reputation in his class- is well-known by people. Since this man is ranked high in the world, has surely achieved success – has a business or a secure job and eventually going to keep this till the end.
One Who Can Improvise Stuff
A rare quality that invites a woman to a man is the finesse to devise makeshift arrangement. For instance, while camping if a man knows how to make fire and create a temporary shelter is going to impress a lady. Best yet, if he can fish!! What is more, a skilled man would be one who can fix a watch or her shoe buckle. Women take this as bonus.
Knows How To Dress Sharp
Here comes the most vital physical aspect of a real man, dress sense. Often how a man dresses speaks about his inner personality as well. For a sharply dressed man the possibilities abound. A surefire way to arrest a woman’s eyes is to dress smart- when a man is all dressed up, he looks his best and along with other qualities can even win a queen’s heart.
However dressing sharp not necessarily means wearing a suit but someone with their fitting and elegant clothes on. But gents, if you can afford, a suit will keep your style game up.
Wears Fragrance
A well-dressed man is sure to tempt mind of a lady but an invisible agent can even go further- reach her soul. A sublime fragrance can leave an imprint on her heart even after you have left her company. Women have a unique sense of smell and can store this volatile detail in their minds.
Fragrance works the philosophy of attraction between male and female. If you know how to be detected invisibly then you could become the man of her dream.
Takes Care of Himself
Women love to be around a dapper – a well-groomed gentleman, because he has much to say via his personality- women especially notice how much a man cares about his appearance in public, particularly his tidiness– First off women take note of a man’s face – the eyes, the skin- whether he appears run down or a healthy male –How immaculately his hair is done.
If he is clean shaven or in case of a bearded man how trimmed and neat his beard is. Even a lady would consider his nails and polished shoes while judging him as a gentleman. Any imperfection can overshadow your efforts.
Accepts His Fault
Pointing the finger at others is a so easy but a gentleman should do the opposite. What?? Why to shoot yourself in the foot when you can get away undetected.
Gents, that’s what makes you an authentic man. Accepting a wrong action tastes bitter but a real man should take the responsibility to correct it and create good.
Man of Surprises
Even for a billionaire life can be monotonous at times, in fact full of boredom. A man should know how to thrill his lady, it’s fine art, though !! This man who knows how to reinforce love between him and her is always in high demand.
An unexpected occurrence- a random gift, a getaway to a beach or a night out should lift her mood.
Turn her uneventful days into celebrations.
For a woman a present is not always a mood-lifter. A creative man can amuse her with one-liners. Leaving a note of love in her purse or spending time hand-in-hand at the terrace can be so romantic. Women wish a man who would break their mundane routine.
Be her Romeo- make love- do what it takes to be her hero !!
