A most common word ‘sexy’, we use it many times to describe a man or woman who is irresistibly attractive. It does not necessarily implies that a body bare of cloths would be attributed as sexy. Mostly man and women are attracted to each other by some subtle indicators of sexiness. Being sexy is also about how exciting you appear via your dress sense, body language, voice, a particular style of behaving. Having said that we can say every single man or woman could find each other appealing for a specific reason which others might not see.
A skew eye contact from a man to a woman or vice versa could mean sexy.
Rolled up sleeves showing hairy forearm or unbuttoned shirt revealing man’s chest can be a sexy signal to a nearby woman.
Sometimes you need not deliberately act sexily to trigger a response from a woman.
There is a strange philosophy of being sexy that only a sexy person can find in another sexy person.
Being sexy in other words is being too appealing to arouse sexual feelings in opposite gender.
What are those secrets of being hot- dress sense or habits and body language that work in your favour to lock a woman’s interest in you?
Let us find out…
Clothing
If asked, many men would definitely go topless to engage a lady’s attention. It can happen if you have a chiseled body. But that’s not the case with every woman out there.
A passing interest in your physical attributes is natural since you are exposing hot body parts. For a real man to stir her sexual desire for him, that can steal her sleep, it takes more than that.
So men don’t strip but put on some powerful clothing, not very trendy- not necessarily high-priced. Your clothing must represent you- your simple and impeccable style.
- Nail the fit- as always anything you put on must fit you
- Coordinate all elements perfectly
- Don’t overdo
A plain fitting blue formal shirt can do wonders if you know how to carry it.
Body Language- Stance
A killer move can be sexy to any lady. Learn how to stand, walk and sit if you want everyone to pay special attention to you. Sit upright, stand erect. Spine should be relaxed but straight to display your actual height. don’t stand like an iron rod. An ordinary man can outclass anyone with his bearing. Don’t cross your hands while standing or talking with people.
How you move and adopt different powerful poses can flaunt your sex appeal to a lady. You must have watched James bond movies, he does it perfectly. Composed and undisturbed bearing in most instances portray him as a characteristic male.
Being sexy is a frame of mind, No one is sexy all the times!
Voice
Your voice can play it right into your court. Pitch of voice, modulation or tone. Sexy for women is a husky calculated low pitch voice.
A deeper tone exudes masculinity and sexiness of men. Stay tuned to the right pitch throughout the exchange and you are likely to have your advantage over other rivals.
Mastering the fine art of voice modulation is the key to become target man for her. Many women relate slow and deep voice to a mature man.
Don’t fake if your pitch is high or if you ramble habitually, you will be caught.
Although practice voice modulation and intonation regularly, not only for women.
Laid-Back Attitude
Carefree and unavailable man appears sexier than those who chase women. Casual attitude displays that you are not in a hurry and have a stable temperament. Hurriedness is a sign of fleeting nature while composure says you are confident about yourself and know when to do something.
For instance, asking a woman out when you want or when she wants are two different things. A man’s facial expressions and gestures should also be coherent while he interacts with a woman. Most men jump at all women, that’s what some women might want but if you wish for a special mate; wait.
Body Parts
Some hot spots for a woman are- sculpted side neck, broad tapering shoulders, ripped forearms, rugged jaws, athletic thighs, broad chest. Women may like a slim, athletic or chubby guy depending upon their mentality or attitude but some body parts remains undoubtedly attractive to all women.
However you need to understand the situation. At office or interviews you can not
Scent or Fragrance
Every woman has a slightly different perspective of sexiness but no woman dislikes a fragrance; in fact women prefer a man with perfume on than a man without. It is always effective to wear fragrance when you want to improve your chances of her being in hot pursuit after you. Spray one seductive perfume on and around hot areas of your body. Find a signature scent that can arrest her senses.
Remember it’s a style game and weak candidates will soon find an exit from it.
Let the fragrance change the game for you, try musk scent which is equivalent to sex.
Eye Contact
A firm and engaging eye contact is a subtle way to look appealing. It shows your interest in another person. One more component, the glance, is also a powerful weapon to look sexy. Sometimes a glance is more powerful with a movement or stance.
But eye contact is not about staring and making a woman feel uncomfortable. This can done by focusing on the subject your are talking and shifting your eyes during brief intervals. A powerful eye contact also shows that you are emotionally stable and her looks do not distract you from making your point.
A brief glance at someone while having a sip of drink with a subtle head tilt can say a lot about your interest in a lady initially. A sideways glance over shoulder pausing for a one or two seconds is enough to project your sex appeal.
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Smile
Another killer attribute of a sexy man is his instinctive smile. Affecting an artificial grin is no use since you it would be detected on her radar so be careful not to show off.
Smile as you know her. It instantly arrests her attention, especially when you are talking with a girl its mandatory to look welcoming. A pleasing smile makes the lady feel comfortable with you and help her open up more. Don’t overdo, stay calm during serious exchanges. Always smile while seeing off people; especially women, they like it and prefer a man who knows how to attend to ladies.
Hair
Especially chest hair and beard. Chest hair is a turn on for few women but a shaggy chest will be the biggest turn off.
An immaculate haircut a unique way of offering yourself as a gentleman. A clean shaven face is equally likely to draw attention as a perfectly trimmed beard. Your sexiness for women lies in looking sharp with your hair.
Always maintain clean hair
Even sometimes stubble is sexier than a beard.
The reason for the appeal in men’s hair may be due to the fact that women might fantasize the brushing of his hair against her softer skin during intimate contact… and.. that… is… sexy!!
